You can't protect your kids all the time....

The other day I was watching the Today Show and they were showing pictures of Haiti. The video clip was of a mother and daughter. They were both crying because the injuries to the girl were so bad they were going to have to amputate the girls leg. I was so into the emotional part of it I didn't hear Lilly come down the stairs.
Lilly had just woke up and walked in the living room as I was watching this clip. I didn't have time to change the channel or anything. So the next thing I know Lilly has all kinds of questions. Momma why are they crying? Momma how come they don't have a house? Why are they hurt? These and many more came from my tender, 4 yr. olds mouth. Where to begin?
Well I explained the best that I could. I tried not to make it sound so scary. I reassured her that Daddy and I would protect her and take care of her always. I gave her lots of hugs and kisses and thought all was well.
Lilly and I were both upstairs getting ready to read books before bed. Lilly was picking toys up and putting things away. While she was busy I found this piece of paper on the floor. I opened it up and looked at it. Lilly had drawn this stick figure but it had no arms. Not really thinking, I said uh-oh you forgot her arms. Lilly looked at me and said no I didn't. I questioned where her arms were. Lilly looked at me very serious and said "they got cut off because of the earthquake." I froze, what do you say to something like that?
My baby is growing up so fast. I realized then and there, that harder questions and topics are coming. I need to be more prepared. But like I said, you can't protect your kids all the time. Just be sure to always hug them and let the last words you say to them be
I love you!